When most people go shopping for groceries, they have a grocery list. When most swingers go to clubs they have a list or description of the types of couples that they would prefer to match up with first.
Remember that if you are going shopping for apples, that there are many types of apples out there. You might have a Delicious apple on your list, but you might only see Granny Smith's in the store. It might not be your favourite apple, but all apples taste pretty goo a threesome, you will be very surprised on how many people are willing to help you out, once they get to know you.d!
It is very important that you not set your sights too high looking for a perfect couple. You are looking for an erotic evening or a new sexual experience, not a lifelong partner couple to call your own.
Be Honest! Many couples that are looking for a second female to form a threesome will tell many couples that they are looking for a couple, but in reality were only looking for a second female player. This type of activity is what couples refer to as head games.
Don't play head games with other couples. If you are looking for a male or female only to join in for in for a threesome, you will be very surprised on how many people are willing to help you out, once they get to know you.