Getting into the lifestyle is easy but it is scary too. It is easy for us to tell you no need to be nervous, but really, it is true. Everyone in the lifestyle was new at one time and everyone moves at their own pace. When you join Club Whispers you don’t need to feel any pressure. You are free to do as little or as much as you like.
People get into the lifestyle because of different interests (such as: voyeurism, exhibitionism, swapping, etc.). If you are considering getting into the lifestyle in order to fix a problem in your relationship, our advice is don’t! This is not the kind of activities that will fix a relationship. However, if you want to enhance an already strong relationship, this could be the perfect route. Always be up front and very honest with each other and others you may talk to within the lifestyle. Let them know what your interests are and find out what they are looking for. It is perfectly ok to be curious but unsure.