Never been to a Lifestyle Club?
Most people have the wrong idea of what a swing club is. Many think that it’s just one big orgy and you check your clothes at the door and then dive right in, doing anything you want with whomever you like. This is certainly not the case at Club Whispers. As much as anything else, Club Whispers is a social club where you’ll meet and form friendships with some of the nicest people you’ve ever met. In some cases, you’ll form bonds that will last a lifetime.
Many of us have heard of “swinging”. Okay….some of you may even need to strike from your mind the visual of the 70’s swinger. You know the one…the post-dinner party, long-side-burned hubby who languidly fondles his neighbour’s wife upon the shag carpeting of his suburban, living room floor; all the while with the sound of his wife’s giggles erupting from the bedroom down the hall. For many swingers today, the “lifestyle” is social … and it may or may not include a full partner “swap”.
Swinging, in a mainstream sense, has become something of a social-sexual phenomenon in recent years. People from all walks of life are attracted to the “lifestyle”, with the highest influx being 25-40 something, married, middle to upper class, professionals hitting the scene for the first time.
In a society that promotes sexuality, secure couples and singles have been able to develop a sense of sexual maturity. Good communication and honesty about “what turns you on” has led to a point where exploration has become a popular pastime.
Here’s how it works…
When you walk into Club Whispers for the very first time, you and/or your partner are probably very nervous. You don’t know anyone here and you might feel like everyone is watching you. That’s a good sign! That means you’re normal. That’s exactly how everyone feels their first time.
You might expect a lot when you first come to Club Whispers and that’s probably the biggest cause of anxiety for most first time visitors. As first timers, women are usually more nervous about the evening than their partners. For many men, it’s hard to not think about fulfilling all of their fantasies of threesomes and orgies.
Our recommendation is for all first timers to approach the evening with only one single expectation, and that is to have a fun time together.
For your first visit to Club Whispers, plan on having a nice intimate dinner somewhere close by before you arrive at the club where you will be met by our friendly host and hostess who will take their time in giving you a personally guided tour of the facilities all the time explaining how it works and of course, answering any questions you may have. Then it’s time for you to grab a drink and enjoy the edgy atmosphere and sexually charged dance floor in Players Nightclub.
This way you’ll both be completely comfortable, unrushed and all of your questions answered. Club Whispers is a non-pressure zone, you can take things as fast or as slow as you are comfortable with.
The only requirement here, is that you have a fun night!